So I keep getting ingrown hair and I know it’s ingrown hairs and not an STD, but I’m worried that other people won’t. I just want to get rid of them.
Okay so not really a question, but Miss Cassandra has got you covered. Ingrown hairs are pretty natural, you can actually get them anywhere on your body—fun fact. It’s unfortunate to get them down there because while they don’t look like any known STI, drunk-one-time-hook-ups see a red bump and freak out.Shaving can often be the cause of ingrown hairs. You can get them without shaving, but shaving can disrupt the follicle and make it a bigger problem. The easiest way to cut down on them is to simply stop shaving. But I know about the kids today with their bikini lines and manscaping, they think they have to be hairless down there. I get it. Try waxing if it’s so important to look like a naked mole rat. It hurts like a bitch, but it’ll last longer.
But if you’re really attached to shaving, there are some ways to reduce ingrown hairs. Make sure you change your razor often. Also, using shaving cream (steal your boyfriend’s, he won’t notice) can really reduce razor burn that leads to in growns. Try shaving with hot water, as well.
If you still have a problem, you can get rid of them (or make them go away faster). Try gently exfoliating the area either with a scrub or a glove (be careful with scented products, though). You can also use acne medication with benzoyl peroxide. Some people say to take a needle or tweezers to it (which can work) but applying a warm compress will work just as well and there’s no risk of stabbing yourself.
How do threesomes happen?
I am first going to tell you how a threesome doesn’t happen. Getting black out at a party and propositioning a hot girl and her sorority sister doesn’t make a Ménage; that gets you a red cup of vodka to the face. Going up to a lesbian couple and saying how hot they both look doesn’t make a 3-way, but instead, a punch in the groin.Secondly, I am assuming you’re the freshman boy type who’s thinking, (German accent) “two ladies and I’m the only man.” You think you’re a sex god. You think that you can’t only handle a threesome but will be some kind of orgasm machine. I want to stop you right there. Threesomes are kind of awkward. Without implicating herself, Cassandra has been around the block a couple of times and sometimes sex is better with just two. Three’s a weird number. Orgies are not an equal opportunity employer. Not everyone gets a chance to roll with the big boys or balls.
Sex isn’t porn. But if you’re really going to do this, do it right. Talk to your partners before hand. Communication is key. You probably won’t find group sex leaving a kegger (well maybe at Pilam). Finding people for this is probably the hardest part. Luckily, the world is full of freaky people.